Classmate Memorials **
BIRTH: August 10, 1948 - Fort Dodge IA DEATH: January 24, 2020 - Des Moines IA SPOUSE: Alice (Smith) Scharf CHILDREN: Daniel Scharf GRADE SCHOOL: Highland Park |
MEMORIAL:
Dean Scharf, 70, of Duncombe passed away on Friday, January 24, 2020 at the Iowa Methodist Medical Center in Des Moines, IA. Services will be held 10:00 a.m. on Tuesday, January 28, 2020 at Gunderson Funeral Home and Cremation Services. Visitation will be from 4-7:00 p.m. Monday, January 27, 2020. Burial will take place at West Lawn Cemetery in Lehigh, IA. |
To visit Name's "Find A Grave Memorial Page" - CLICK below
We strive to make all of our Class Memorials as complete as possible. If you are able to supply any missing information for the above memorial, we would greatly appreciate you emailing us through the link below. Thank you very much. |
Harvey Hoover
As time marches on, from those days when we went to school together in the 60s, we all agreed that we would stay in touch.
Dean and I often said that to each other, during those high school years and when we graduated... Let's stay in touch!
Guess what? After graduation I can't recall ever talking to Dean again.
Sad as it may be many of my classmates have made that same promise to each other and have never talked to each other again.
At times like this they find themselves wishing they would have at least sent a Chrismas Card or made a phone call "To Just Say HI How Are You Doing".
When receiving an ANNOUCEMENT, like this one, I reflect back to the GOOD times Dean and I had in the 60s.
To Deans family my deepest symphaty for your loss.
I have often thought about contacting Dean in the past years "To Just Say HI How Are You Doing" but Shame On Me I never did.
To my classmates... contact me and any other long loss classmates you made that promise to... and just say "HI" (my contact info is in my profile).
On a positve note...
I'll see some of you at the Phoenix 2020 February reunion so I can personally... "Say HI How Are You Doing"
Dean you will be missed!
Harvey Hoover
Bruce Jochims
Harvey, your words ring so true. I know that there have been times when I have been in an area where I could have reached out to someone and didn't. I remember when I was working, I was in Houston on business and an Army buddy of mine lived in the area. When I knew I was going to be near him, I even got his contact information. When I was there, even though I was there for several days, things got busy, and, I didn't contact him. Through another Army buddy of ours, I found out that he died last year. I didn't know Dean well but I was saddened to hear of his death. Time is short, make someone happy by reaching out.
Kathy Sheker (Aikens)
Sorry to hear about Dean's passing. Your family is in my prayers.
Pamela Hughes (Cline)
I agree with Harvey that we have the best of intentions, but unfortunately time goes so quickly and lives are so busy we miss taking the time to stay in touch. So very thankful that I went to the 50th class reunion and got to say "hi" to serveral of you. So sorry to hear about Dean and prayers to Alice and his family. Pam
Robert Schmeling
Sadly like most of my classmates we all got too busy to stay in touch. Havey Hoover said it best when he said we must stay in touch. Harvey and I have stayed in touch and we get together at least once a year at my Mini Alumni Reunion...I spoke with Alice prior to our 50th Class reunion but I did not have the opportunity to see Dean. I am so sorry to hear of his death. I hope that his fond memories can give us comfort in the future. Dean always crackied jokes and had a smile on his face when ever I saw him. The picture posted reminded me of that grin that I would see in homeroom every day at school. Rest in Peace my friend till we meet again...Bob Schmeling
Ellen Demery (Chalgren)
I have special memories of Dean when we both went to Highland Park. Dean's sister married my uncle and I remember he was the only boy who could come over when I babysat. He was always nice and made me laugh. Alice, I hope good memories bring you comfort. Love and Friendship, ellen & larry